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Town Clerks of 
Cheshire County
Alstead
Chesterfield
Dublin
Fitzwilliam
Gilsum
Harrisville
Hinsdale
Jaffrey
Keene
City of Keene
Marlborough
Marlow
Nelson 
Richmond
Rindge
Roxbury
Stoddard
Sullivan
Surry
Swanzey
Troy
Walpole
Westmoreland
Winchester

 

 

Congratulations, and welcome to the wonderful world of wedding planning. I sincerely hope that my service will be of great help to you, and it is with that in mind that I offer you this planning timeline for your use.

It is best to allow a full year to plan your wedding. If you don't have a year, don't fret - it is possible to plan a beautiful wedding in less time. The biggest risk is that a specific performer, service, or facility might already be reserved on your target date, thus limiting your choices.

I recommend that you enlist the expert assistance of a Wedding Consultant to help you plan your wedding, not because you are incapable of planning your own event, but because I know how stressful planning and keeping track of every little detail can be. I especially recommend this step if you have less than six months to plan your wedding, as the consultant will be able to take a great deal of pressure off your shoulders.

  12 Months-
  • Engagement Ring
  • Ask bride's parents
  • Announce engagement!
  • Discuss preliminary budget and expense sharing
  • Wedding coordinator
  • Ceremony site
  • Officiant
  • Reception site
  • Catering arrangements (food, beverage, staff)
  • Preliminary invitations list

 

  9 - 12 Months-
  • Choose bridesmaids, groomsmen, maid or matron of honor, and best man
  • Choose color scheme
  • Select photographer, and have engagement photos taken
  • Select all musicians for ceremony and reception
  • Select videographer 
  6 - 9 Months- 
  • Select wedding gown and accessories
  • Select bridesmaid's dresses and accessories
  • Bridal party's first fitting
  • Select a Jeweler
  • Select a Florist
  • Select a travel agent and choose your destination
  • Get passports
  • Meet with your reception site Master of Ceremonies (usually the band leader or disc jockey) to discuss the preliminary details of how you'd like the reception handled

 

  4 - 6 Months-
  • Select men's formal wear
  • Select invitations and stationary
  • Select transportation services
  • Select hotel accommodations for out-of-town guests
  • Select and reserve Wedding night suite
  • Select and reserve any rental equipment
  2 - 3 Months- 
  • Select wedding cake
  • Gift registry
  • Gifts for attendants and each other
  • Wedding favors, decorations, and accessories
  • Trousseau and apparel for honeymoon and bridal showers
  • Select site for and arrange rehearsal dinner
  • Plan for pre-wedding parties
  • Tie up financial and legal matters
  • Finalize living arrangements
  • Finalize florist order
  • Preliminary hair and makeup consultation
  1 - 2 Months- 
  • Confirm all contracted services and reservations
  • Send wedding invitations
  • Final meeting with Master of Ceremonies
  • Finalize details of ceremony and reception with appropriate site coordinators
  • Newspaper announcements
  • Buy marriage license
  • Final bridal gown and attendants dress fittings
  • Select ceremony accessories: Unity candle, ring pillow, guest book, etc.
  • Select personal accessories: purse, garter, toasting goblets, etc.
  • Make salon appointments
  2 - 3 weeks
  • Confirm rehearsal plans and invite guests to rehearsal dinner
  • Arrange change of name and address, and renew all legal documents accordingly
  • Finalize guest count
  • Begin packing for honeymoon
  • Bachelor and bachelorette parties

 

  1 week (Yikes!)
  • Pick up wedding rings (check for proper fit and engraving)
  • Men pick up formal wear (check for proper fit)
  • Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
  • Finalize transportation for bridal party and parents
  Your Wedding Day! 

Relax, and try to take a few moments to reflect upon this - the greatest moment in both of your lives. It will be over soon, but the memories will be yours to treasure for a lifetime.

Thanks for visiting. For more information please e-mail me at: mlynott@shamrockre.com

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THE MARRIAGE CEREMONY OF

   AND  

THE VOWS

We are gathered here this to unite this man and this woman in the bonds of holy matrimony which is an honorable estate. Into this, these two now come to be joined.

If anyone present can show just and legal cause why they may not be joined, let them speak now or forever hold their peace.

Who gives this woman to this man?

(MAN) , will you have this woman as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live? (I will.)

(WOMAN) , will you have this man as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live? (I will.)


THE RING

BEHOLD the symbol of wedlock. The perfect circle of love, the unbroken union of this man and this woman united here today. May you both remain faithful to this symbol of true love.

Please join hands and repeat after me (man first, while placing ring on proper finger.)

I, , take as my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.

I, , take as my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.


For as much as and have consented together in wedlock, and have witnessed the same before this company of friends and family, and have given and pledged their promises to each other, and have declared the same by giving and receiving a ring, and by joining hands.

By the authority vested in me by the State of New Hampshire,

I pronounce this couple to be husband and wife.


This Ceremony was performed on , 20 at by
 Margaret Lynott
12 Sandy Road
West Swanzey, 03469
Home phone: 352-7756
Work phone: 352-8205 or 352-6570

 

  

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